A lot of people forget, or don’t dare to look into it deeply enough, that extremism of whatever form can be traced back to childhood, namely the experiences of abuse and neglect in childhood. The neglected and abused young person will go to a source of love when and in whatever way it offers itself.Continue reading “Family Culture And Its Long Ramifications”
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Redamancy
I wonder how many champions of love have known love only as a giver? Maybe that is why they promoted it so heavily? But love that goes only one way – out – is incomplete and leaves a person restless. The need to fix a situation to self-soothe and to overcompensate for a lack ofContinue reading “Redamancy”
It’s Right to Like, and Promote, the Good Ones
The people who keep dumping on you do it because it is their habit and because they are not moved by friendship or are unable of relating. Time spent waiting for them to change their approach or to “grow up” is time wasted. When you raise a child, you learn how long it takes toContinue reading “It’s Right to Like, and Promote, the Good Ones”
Role Models: Find Them In Your Best Experiences
The free and loving change the world, by their example. At times it is enough to witness one person’s unwillingness to participate in toxic settings or in toxic ideologies to change your mind and do the same. At other times the love that moves towards you will give you the courage to act with loveContinue reading “Role Models: Find Them In Your Best Experiences”
Rely On Love, But Don’t Take It For Granted
“Too many people realize at the end of their lives that they’ve taken for granted those who really love them.” – Lesley Blume Come to your senses before you lose those who truly love you. Wizen up before you grow old. Cut through the preoccupation with meaningless irritations. Be the rare person who appreciates loveContinue reading “Rely On Love, But Don’t Take It For Granted”