What Are You Rewarding?

What you encourage grows. What you react to can grow too — because it feels validated and claims the power to expand. Punishing what pains or chains you or self-hate because you can’t resist it effectively belong to an approach that hasn’t worked all that well to create what you want and love. Instead of shooting backContinue reading “What Are You Rewarding?”

Support Those With a Loving Consciousness

Even the cruel have something to share that is true, well-observed, or thought-provoking. Unfortunately, they also read the approval of one brief conclusion as the approval of their actions. Bending over backwards to prove to them that they are loved too is a tactic that ends up with results that are the opposite of whatContinue reading “Support Those With a Loving Consciousness”