Love In the Language And In the Paradigm

Loving Your Enemies means not destroying your enemies, letting them live on earth, even if you don’t understand their actions and make different choices. It does not mean seeking your enemies to change them or make them follow your ideas of what life is about. Loving Your Kin is more or less the opposite ofContinue reading “Love In the Language And In the Paradigm”

The Art of the Shrug

I admire women who have perfected the art of the shrug. It is the right response to so many things (I won’t list them; I am leaving that to your imagination), nonverbally powerful: neither fighting the information coming your way, nor faking fascination. I only observe it in people who are real and want toContinue reading “The Art of the Shrug”