Have Confidence In Your Guidance!
Your husband, your wife is not coming when you desperately hold onto fuck boys or fuck girls.
Your income is not where you want it to be because you don’t let yourself think clearly. You find yourself in soap operas, not even of your own making, instead of in a place that grows your self-belief and discipline.
Your mentors and your friends are likely already in your life. You do not notice them because the narcissists, users, con men, leeches and losers are more interesting to you than the sweet, cool, capable cats.
Your mental or physical health eludes you, because you spend time, money and attention on the advice of people who are in a much worse state than you are, who have conditions and addictions that they can hide very well and who can talk a good game.
Be mindful of that.
Wake up to what is separating you from your wish. Wake up to the many ways that you are not respecting your guidance. Your guidance keeps telling you “This feels good, do more of it”. It is your conditioning that suggests that only what you can lose any day and must fight for must be somehow worthwhile and that introduces you to all those many dizzying ways that move you away from hearing and heeding guidance.
You can live in love. Know that turmoil, let downs, chaos, go-byes and fear-based decisions like settling for mediocrity are signs from Life that what you are choosing is the opposite of what you say you want.
If you really need shattering confirmation that your choices do not reflect what you love and thereby your highest good, listen to a few former fuck boys who have outgrown their ways. Listen to the other illusionists too who I have identified above and to whom you have given your power. They can tell you that they picked up whose decision making was poor versus whose was not.
If they are truly reformed and on a new path now, they can also point out people whose decision making was excellent (and whom they could not trick).
So, let’s look to the people whose decision making was excellent… and take a leaf out of their book.
Maybe they did not appear overly relatable once. In hindsight, they are recognized for their intuition, good sense, emotional intelligence and foresight. Intuition, good sense, emotional intelligence and foresight are qualities that are not exactly evenly spread or common.
Good decision makers select the best in the situation. They take responsibility for their intuition and then, for their course of action. They free themselves of the opinions of people who are not walking in their shoes.
Good decision makers in your life and in history are known for their good boundaries.
Don’t think hard about about what “people will think” about you. Think hard about what you will think about yourself and about your choices. Let that direct and redirect your course.
Accept high-vibrational blessings today. Put yourself in the settings you love. This is how you welcome what Life wants to give you.
Do it tomorrow, too. Do it the day after tomorrow. Do it every time you remember.
23 October 2020